Hosea 1:2-10;
Psalm 85:8-13
Nothing is more powerful than a good
love story. I am not talking about Ali McGraw batting her eyes at Ryan O’Neal
and saying the most ridiculous line written in the ego-centric 1970’s, “Love
means never having to say your sorry.” I am talking about a real love story
like Romeo or Juliet, Lancelot and Guinevere, or Heloise and Abelard. I am
thinking of a story in which love and tragedy are intermingled leaving us both
fulfilled and empty. I am thinking of desperate measures creating life changing
consequences such as Grace Kelly, a life long pacifist shooting a member of the
Miller gang in order to save Gary Cooper. In a classic love story, the need for
transformation and grace are central to the plot.
How many of you are familiar with the love
story of Hosea and Gomer? You might be surprised to know the Old Testament is
filled with love stories. There is Abraham and Sarah; Jacob and Rachel; David
and Bathsheba; Solomon and every woman he ever met. And then there is this gem
located deep in the Minor Prophets. It begins with less than appealing first
line, “Hosea, go take for yourself a whore, and have children with this whore,
for Israel has become a whore by forsaking the Lord.”
We much prefer the more familiar, “Two
households, both alike in dignity, in fair Verona, where civil blood makes
civil hands unclean and a pair of star-crossed lovers take their lives”, (Romeo
and Juliet, Act 1 scene 1). I entreat you consider another tale of woe in which,
“righteousness and peace kiss as faithfulness springs from the ground” (Psalm
85:10).
The book of Hosea, written in the last
days of Israel,
begins by telling a tragic story between a man and his adulterous wife. It is a
metaphor depicting the unfaithfulness of Israel and the eternal steadfast
love of God. It is a story for any generation.
Hosea seeks a wife. This is not the
teenage Romeo seeking out the youthful and chaste Juliet. This is an older man
seeking out a woman who has a history. Can you imagine what the neighbors said
when Hosea announced the wedding?
“Poor Hosea, why did he choose her? There were so many other women/nations that
would have been a better choice. Why go with Gomer/Israel when Syria, or Lebanon
or even Babylon
would have made a better bride? She has been unfaithful in the past; she will
be unfaithful in the future. She will not change.”
Despite all of the warnings, Hosea vowed
his love to Gomer. Soon Gomer was pregnant with their first child. Keeping with
the cultural tradition, the naming of the child was very important. Names like
David or Abraham honored their storied past. Hosea chose Jezreel a name which
means “God plants”. That sounds great
except we are told that the name also predicts Israel
will be destroyed in the valley
of Jezreel. Speaking of
postpartum depression, the naming of the child probably depressed the whole
community.
A
year later Gomer gave birth to a daughter. Her name was Lo-ruhamah which means
“not loved” or “not pitied”. What a
marvelous name for one already suffering from low self esteem.
But
Hosea wasn’t finished. A second son was born and was given the name Lo-ammi
which means, “Not my people.” Imagine about dinner time in their little
community, all the children are playing together when Gomer goes to the back
porch and hollers, “Jezreel, Not pitied, Not my people, come home to dinner.” I suspect word got out that the Hosea backyard
was off limits.
Eventually
Gomer had enough. There was no fourth child. She left Hosea and the children.
Gomer returned to her former occupation, wanting to get as far away Hosea as
possible. If it wasn’t a love story, this is where our tale would end. But if
it stopped here, the story would not be worth telling.
Hosea
had been humiliated. The neighbors laughed at Hosea and ask what he really
expected would happen when he married a whore. Hosea even questioned God,
thinking the Almighty was also responsible for his humiliation. But God did not
have time for Hosea’s embarrassment. God spoke to the distraught prophet and
said, “Buy her back. You love her, you promised to protect her, you made a
covenant with her. Go downtown to her owners and buy her back.”
This
would be a wonderful time to do a psychological profile on Gomer or make some
disparaging remarks about the overt sexism of both Hosea and God but let’s
refrain from both. Ignoring the obvious flaws that are present in the story
let’s continue to move forward. Hosea sought Gomer out. At first she was not to
be found. She was no longer young and desirable. She no longer demanded top
dollar. Truth is Gomer was hardly wanted at all and those that do buy her further
abused both her body and soul. Hosea found her in the back of a deserted room,
more dead than alive. She was beaten so badly that he hardly recognized her.
But Hosea still went to the men who owned her and asked, “How much?”
They
respond, “For an hour or the night?”
Hosea
replied, “For a life time.” Homer met all their demands. He gathered Gomer up,
took her home and washed her wounds and her loved her forever.
I
know some of you are shaking your heads. What kind of love story is this? Is Gomer
going to be any happier with Hosea the second time around? You might even be
thinking this is really a tragedy. At least in Pretty Woman the prostitute
is the one who controls the final word. In Hosea, it seems as if Gomer is the
victim and will continue to play second fiddle to the desires of both Hosea and
God.
Perhaps
that is the problem with any metaphor. First metaphors are intentionally over
the top. Second, a story told 2700 years ago about the relationship between God
and Israel, today becomes a character study on a bad marriage. We look at Gomer as the victim. We want to
not only care for her but release her from her history of male domination. It
is only logical that we might feel this way. The problem is, by concentrating
on Gomer, by lifting her to status of heroine, we risk missing the actual
message of this story.
Let’s
get one thing straight. Israel
was not innocent. The people had embraced a covenant relationship with Yahweh.
They had built a place of worship at Bethel.
But the demands of the covenant i.e. that they worship only one God, that they
live as one with all their neighbors, that they regard lying, coveting and
stealing as sinful weighed heavy on the heart of a people who were being
courted by a different lifestyle. The worship of Baal demanded little and
expected less. By following Baal the people of Israel chose the desires of their
personal appetites rather than those things that make for a healthy community. They
abandoned the Torah and wrapped themselves in the joys of personal delights.
Within a generation, the concept of community was lost, the gap between rich
and poor broadened, and all civic pride was lost. Despite this, God still loved
Israel.
This
vivid, striking, even offensive metaphor, reveals the heart of a God who
passionately loves, seeks, forgives, waits, pleads and finally saves. William
Willimon writes, “This is the story of a God who just does not sit and wait for
us to come to our senses but rather it is the eternal story of a long suffering
spouse who is willing to be in pain for us. God actively pursues us until we
turn, return, repent, relinquish, and come back.”
Love
stories turn on choices made. Romeo kills himself when he thinks Juliet is dead.
Guinevere became a nun. Abelard became a
monk. The choice in the story of Gomer and Hosea was and still is that God will
not give up on us. For those of us who claim Christ, there is a direct line
between God’s grace toward Israel
and God’s grace poured out on Calvary.
When
I think of grace my mind quickly turns to another love story, Isak Dinesen’s Babette’s Feast, in which early choices
are made because of love, or duty or obligation. Years past and those choices were
second guessed and even grieved. But in the midst of the unexpected feast
General Loewenhielm comments, “Man is frail and foolish. We have been told that
grace is to be found in the universe
but in our foolishness and short-sightedness we imagine divine grace to be
finite. For this reason we tremble. We
tremble before making choices and then we tremble in fear of having chosen
wrong. But the moment comes when our eyes are opened and we see and realize
grace is infinite. Grace demands nothing from us but that we shall await it
with confidence and acknowledge it in gratitude. Grace makes no conditions and
singles none of us out. Grace takes us in its bosom and proclaims general
amnesty. For mercy and truth have met together and righteousness and truth have
kissed one another.”
My
friends never forget this. God loved us in the beginning. God has loved us
through out the history of humankind. And God will love us tomorrow.
To
God be the glory. Amen.