Luke 1. 46b -55
I suspect we all have a favorite
Christmas story, a moment in time that in a quiet moment is resurrected in our
head. There is something about Christmas
which gives us permission to dream of a time gone by and even wistfully wish
those moments would once again appear. I remember going to Williamsburg as a child for the lighting of
the candles. On returning home, we would stand just off the front porch and
shout for all the world to hear, “Mrs. Andrews, light your candles.” I remember
firing a shotgun on Christmas morn as a way of remembering the death of my
grandfather. Those memories are weaved into the very fabric of our life story
and sometimes, just at the right time, they are resurrected to remind us of the
delight Christmas once was and still can be when we allow ourselves to be
captured by the mystery and grace of this season.
In that respect Mary was no different
from us. This child, soon to turn woman,
had her own stories, her own memories that celebrated the hand of God in both
the ordinary and the extraordinary. Like most Jewish girls experiencing life
swelling in side her, Mary remembered the miracle of Hannah the mother of
Samuel. She remembered the song that Hannah sang when she became pregnant. It was not just a song celebrating a son; it
was a song rejoicing over what this birth might bring.
Listen once again. “My soul magnifies
the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior. For God has looked with favor
on the lowliness of his servant. Surely from now on all generations will call
me blessed for the mighty has done great things for me. Blessed is his name. God’s mercy is on those
who fear him. God has shown strength and scattered the proud, God has brought
down the powerful and lifted up the lowly. God has filled the hungry and sent
the rich away. God has remembered us in God’s mercy and remembered the promise
made to Abraham.”
Each birth fulfilled the ancient
covenant; each birth evoked a memory; each birth offered the possibility of a
miracle.
It was late in December, 1973. I was
stationed at Camp Casey, about 90 kilometers north of Seoul, Korea. I had been scheduled to spend 13 months in an
infantry company but quickly found a way to become a trumpet player for what
was unofficially but appropriately titled
the Second Division Blues Band. Never was there a bluer time in my life than
spending that Christmas with three other G.I’s in a metal Quonset hut half way
around the world.
Our residence was a semi-circular tin
can with an oil stove in the middle. It was attached to the back another
building for stability. We crammed four beds and standing lockers into the small
space called it home. Our job, during
the month of December was to load up every morning in a bus and travel through
out the Second Division giving Christmas concerts to soldiers and the
occasional audience of Korean Children. You would have thought it would have
given us great joy to spread such good news all over the land but the opposite
was true. Christmas music still grates on me in a less than positive way.
Besides myself, three other musicians
occupied our hut. Steve, an artist and drummer from Iowa would occupy his time with water
colors. I noticed during the holidays he only used charcoal prints. Ted was a
trombone player from Pennsylvania.
He loved everything about Penn
State. Ron, another
trumpet player, was the youngest member of our group and the only one who was
married. He had a son, born in July. Ron
had only seen once. There was a fifth member of our but we never thought much about
him. His name was Mr. Lee. He was an
older man who washed and ironed our clothes once a week, shined our shoes, and
made sure we had fuel for our stove. If we gave him cigarettes, Mr. Lee he
would find a second can guaranteeing the hut would stay warm through most of
the night.
The highlight of our day was when we
would pull in from our journeys and check to see if any mail had come in. Packages and mail from home was a joy,
especially for Ron. It was his only connection with his wife and child. One day
we received a ceramic Christmas tree which stood every bit of nine inches high.
We found a small table, put tree on the table and plugged it in whenever we
were home. When a present arrived, it would be placed under the table. Even
cookies and cakes, no matter how stale, were stashed under the table. We were
determined to make something of Christmas Day.
Our biggest surprise was a Christmas ham
sent by Ron’s wife. It was one of those little canned ham, probably more Spam
than real meat but for the four of us it was to be the center piece of our
Christmas Dinner. We counted down the days until we could open the ham and
shamelessly devour it. No mess hall food for us. We were preparing for a feast.
We respectfully placed the ham on the little table beside the tree.
I remember Christmas Eve as if it were
yesterday. Every camp north of Casey seemed to have promised their guys a bit
of Christmas. We played six shows that
day and didn’t pull into Casey until almost midnight. We were exhausted. All I
wanted to do was pull off my boots and fall into bed. But not Ron. As soon as
we got off the bus he was like a kid waiting to see Santa. All he had talked about was opening the gifts
sent to him from his son. Much to the chagrin of Steve and Ted, we decided we
would each open one gift just to get Ron off our back. We stumbled into the
hut, turned on the tree lights and heard Ron scream, “Oh my God, where is the
ham?”
I looked on the floor; Ted looked behind
the beds while Ron stood in the middle of the room screaming. It was obvious
the ham was gone. There was no consoling Ron. It was as if that ham had been
picked out by his infant son. It took us some time to calm him down. It was
pretty obvious what had happened. Mr. Lee had slipped in while we were gone and
taken the ham for himself. Ron wanted to go into the village and search for the
thief but we knew that was impossible. We told Ron we would go with him the
next day to find the thief. Reluctantly agreeing, grabbed a six pack of beer,
and went outside. He sat against the hut, popped a top, drank a beer and threw
the can on top of the hut. I was reawakened each time a can would roll to the
ground.
The next morning was the worst Christmas
of my life. Nobody had slept. Ron was drunk. Steve was mad because Ron had
drunk his beer. Ted was angry because he found out all his Penn State
buddies were going to the Orange Bowl to see Penn State
play LSU. Furthermore, there was no ham, therefore no meal, therefore in our
minds, no Christmas.
About three o’clock that afternoon there
was a knock on our door. Everyone else had left, which in retrospect was a good
thing. I opened the door and was greeted by a Korean man and woman. The woman introduced herself as the daughter
of Mr. Lee. She then introduced Mr. Park.
She told us that Mr. Park would be taking over the duties as our
houseboy because her father could no longer serve us. Before I could speak, she
continued. Each year her father and others worked hard to prepare a special
meal at a local orphanage. Mr. Lee had noticed the ham on the table and wanted
to offer his additional services for the ham but feared you would not part with
it. Yesterday when he knew there was not enough meat for the children, he came
back to tell you his plight. But you were not here so he stole the ham. He knew
you would not go hungry, even without the ham. He could not say the same of the
children. Mr. Lee’s daughter left me with these words, “My father has dishonored
himself and can longer work for you.”
I wanted to tell her if Mr. Lee had told
us about the children we would have given him money, but I could not. Up until
that moment I had only seen Mr. Lee as a houseboy, someone who washed my
clothes, shined my shoes and stole fuel for an extra cigarette. If anything we
probably thought he was overpaid. I viewed him as a slave, not a savior.
Mary
sang, “God has brought down the powerful and lifted up the lowly. God has
filled the hungry with good things. God has remembered us and been merciful.”
Perhaps I never fully understood those words until that Christmas Day in 1973.
Merry Christmas Mr. Lee, wherever you
are.