Sunday, March 10, 2013

Ministry of Reconciliation



Luke 15:11-32; II Corinthians 5:16-21

        The Apostle Paul had a major problem.  He had made a personal commitment to the folks in the Church at Corinth and things were not going as planned.  Paul wrote at least 5 letters to this church trying to straighten out their troubles.  We have the majority of those letters in First and Second Corinthians.  The difficulty faced by Paul was quite simple; many of the folks in that church just didn’t care for each other.  They disagreed over politics, they disagreed over religious issues and they really had problems over what kind of meat you could put on a sandwich. There was not a lot of room for discussion because each group, and there was more than one, was convinced they had been given the  word of the Lord, which of course meant the other folks were imposter at best and heretics at worst. We have to give Paul style points for trying. In the earliest letter, he tried to address each issue, an exercise which only made folks doubt Paul’s faith. In the letter that includes  First Corinthians 12, Paul attempted a second strategy. He acknowledged their differences and wrote while everyone was not the same, those differences should be celebrated.  Paul suggested just because folks are different doesn’t mean they can’t get along. He offered the human body as an example of different parts working together to obtain a greater goal. He pointed out all the different talents present in the Corinthian Church.  He encouraged the church to recognize and celebrate those differences.

        That didn’t work either. In Paul’s third letter we witness him trying a new tact. He wrote a soliloquy which quickly became considered his masterpiece.  “If I speak with the tongue of angels but have not love, I am little more than a clanging gong.” We know the words. We have heard I Corinthians 13 a hundred times or more, “Love is patient, love is kind, love is gentle. Love does not keep score but rejoices in truth.  Love bears all things.”  How could a poem such as this not melt the hearts of the harshest opponents?  That is a great question without a good answer. The letter fell on deaf ears.  Soon afterwards Paul was speaking of making another painful visit to this turbulent congregation.  It seemed the harder Paul tried, the worse things got.  Nothing Paul tried was successful with this cantankerous group. By the time we get to Paul’s final plea found in Second Corinthians 5 it would seem as if Paul has run out of things to say.  Nothing had worked and the Church was hopelessly divided. In Paul’s closing plea he wrote, “If anyone is in Christ, they have become a new creation.  As God reconciled us to himself, so we are to be reconciled to God and each other.” 

        Reconciliation is a big word that doesn’t often come up in our every day conversations.   What does it mean to be reconciled to someone?  Those of you who have been Presbyterian for a long time might remember in the midst of the turmoil of Viet Nam and the Civil Rights Movement, our church wrote the Confession of 1967 which centered around one verse.  “In Jesus Christ, God was reconciling the world to himself.”  The Confession clearly defined sin in terms of discrimination, national arrogance, and class conflict.  The confession declared the sinfulness of humanity was more than individual acts of disobedience.  Corporately we chose our desires, our needs, and our appetites over the will of God. Corporately we declare folks who think differently from us to be the primary enemies of God.  To quote the Confession, “The Church is called to bring all people to receive and uphold one another in all relationships.  Congregations, individuals, or groups of Christians who exclude, dominate or patronize others, resist the Spirit of God and bring contempt on the faith which they profess.”

        The $64,000 question is not, “How do we do that?”  The $64,000 question is “Why should we do that?” Why should we become reconciled, i.e. “settle differences to the point of finding harmony”? That risks watering down any issue to the point it no longer matters. Besides, it didn’t work in Corinth. Paul’s fourth and later fifth letters were rejected by the members of that church. If Paul couldn’t convince anyone 2,000 years, ago why should we listen to Paul today? 
 
While we are blessed by harmony, conflict in churches continues. Six churches in our Presbytery are in the process of leaving the PCUSA to go to other denominations. Their complaints center around what they believe to be the Lordship of Jesus Christ, the denomination’s stance on abortion, and a recent change in our ordination standards.  Part of me wants to say good riddance. I have been listening to folks like them holler and scream for the better part of thirty years. They are not going to change and at this point neither am I. Why should I be reconciled to them? To do so means I am willing to at the least continue the conversation and those conversations have always come with a price. I am not sure I am willing to give up anything else to folks with whom I so vehemently disagree.   Perhaps this is why Paul said, “Before we can become reconciled to each other we must first be reconciled with God.” What on earth did he mean by that?

        One of the more interesting stories of reconciliation is one we have heard since we were children.  A man has two sons.  One wants to go out and sow his wild oats.  The other stays home, does all the right things, says all the right things, and even believed he was supporting his father when he created a peer group of older brothers who stood out in the street vehemently protesting, “While we don’t actually hate our younger siblings, we deplore their sins and believe our lives would be much more pleasant if they would forever removed from the family.”  Well that may not be part of the story but I suspect many older brothers have expressed that thought.  Sentiments run strong between siblings, especially if younger siblings aren’t playing by the rules.  I once divided a group of kids into two groups.  I put the oldest brothers and sisters in group number one and the rest in group number two.  Then I asked who has it easier.    According to the elders, the prodigals get away with murder.  They get to come in later, they have a better allowance, they have fewer rules and more privileges.  According to one older brother,   “Back when I was in elementary school I was never allowed to watch TV until all my homework was done.  Now my younger brother doesn’t even know what homework is. In fact, he has a TV in his room.”   While I of course agreed with the sentiments of the older siblings, in fairness I asked the second group how they felt. Typically the prodigals felt like their older siblings always picked on them, and got away with murder.  One said, “She never plays with me and when her friends come over I practically have to leave the house.  Even the dog gets to stay.” 
 
        Those of us who are older brothers and sisters understand the refusal to come to the party given for the delinquent.  Forget his anger toward his sibling.  He was really angry with the father.  The older brother obeyed all the rules; he was pure, holy, and squeaky clean.  He never caused problems.  Except that there was not an ounce of forgiveness in his heart he was absolutely perfect.  How dare his father invite that ingrate back into the house? 

        Sometimes I get weary of preaching about the forgiveness of God?  Doesn’t someone have to be the standard bearer?  Doesn’t someone have to be willing to declare what is right and wrong!  If God isn’t going to strike down sinners in their tracks then I guess it is up to us to become God’s avenging angels.

        Ever played avenging angel before?  I imagine we have all done it once or twice. OK I am not only the older brother, I am a minister. Perhaps I’ve done it more times than I like to imagine. Let me tell you, it feels good.   Every time I have used my bully pulpit to make a righteous point I can count on four things: 

1.     I am never wrong.
2.     My adversary is never right.
3.     Consensus is never reached.
4.     And God, like Elvis, has left the building.

I don’t want you leaving this morning thinking that your minister implied that God does not have standards.  I don’t want you to believe that we should not strive for higher goals.  I certainly don’t want you to think that you shouldn’t voice your beliefs.  What I want you to consider is, ultimately, which is more important, God’s grace or our pride.  When I look out at you folks I see the people of God.  There is nothing ordinary about being God’s people, in fact you are called to be extraordinary: Extra thoughtful, extra friendly, extra involved.  And so you are.  You volunteer, you serve, you listen, you give.  Many of you burn your candle at both ends.  You have done many things so well, you have the right to be frustrated when the prodigals of this world seem to get more than their deserved share of God’s attention while we, the faithful, get left behind the barn. It makes sense that in our frustration we scream  at God, “Why do you keep giving them a second chance? Why do you always celebrate their homecomings?  What about those of us who never left? What about those of us who never stopped working? What about us who are always defending what you claim is right?”

        I struggle mightily with the reality that my service to God may not guarantee that God loves me more than the prodigal.  It is difficult to consider that simply because I claim God, the Holy One may not give me the inside track on the wisdom of this world.  And to be honest, isn’t it hard to believe that those who are our enemies may have not lost favor with God? 

        Karl Barth taught in Germany in the 1920’2 and 1930’s. He is the primary author of the Barmen Confession, an extraordinary document condemning the Third Reich. To escape death, Barth fled to his native Switzerland.  In 1943, Barth was asked by a reporter what he might say to Hitler should he meet the monster who had destroyed Europe. Everyone expected a scathing prophetic judgment. Instead Barth said, “I would quote Romans 5:8, ‘While we were sinners, Christ died for us.” The audience was stunned. What kind of answer was that? Barth continued, “To justly accuse Hitler of his abominations would only prompt a self-righteous defense and justification of his deeds. To remind him of God’s unparallel mercy and forgiveness might prompt genuine repentance.”

        What a strange God we worship. Theology becomes simple when God the Almighty lays out expectations to be honored.  But everything is turned upside down when God the powerful becomes God the servant, when God the everlasting becomes God the crucified, when God the Absolute becomes God the Reconciler.  Mary Gordon writes, “To become reconciled is to give up the exhilaration of one’s own unassailable rightness.”  The prodigal is wrong, why should we forgive him?  Our enemies are wrong, why should we talk to them?  Why should we give up the exhilaration of our unassailable rightness?  The answer is terribly simple. “When we were sinners, Christ died for us.                                           Amen.

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